Is the love in your relationship real, or fake?
These are 5 top signs of fake love in a relationship
To really know whether the love in your relationship is genuine or not, here are some of the signs to look out for.
If it is, all you should do is keep growing the love, keep staying truthful to each other, keep drinking a lot of water, and just keep treating each other in all the good ways that will allow the relationship to thrive further.
On the flip side, fake love is not something anyone would want to live with. Sadly, it is exactly what some people have in their relationships. If the relationship is based on anything different from a genuine willingness to see the other person flourish in every sense of the word, if it is based on something fleeting and temporary, then it is likely fake.
To really know that the love in your relationship is fake, here are some things you may want to watch out for:
In a relationship, fakers have a tendency to be non-communicative. They’ll provide little to no substance to what’s going on in their life. They’ll also make excuses why they “couldn’t” communicate especially when it is a little difficult to do so.
The difference between them and someone with a genuine love for you is the extra effort needed to reach out when it’s not so easy.
Conflict happens in every relationship. It demonstrates the level of care that partners have for one another.
That said, every conflict demands a resolution. If you’re the only one trying to resolve any conflict or problems that arise, it’s often a telltale sign of emotional detachment and this, of course, is a major sign you’ll find in people who have got only fake love for you.
They really won’t care whether the relationship works or fails.
Are you always the one to plan things? Check on the other person. Take responsibilities and all that? If so, what concessions, if any, is your partner making? Where’s the effort on their part?
Relationships and compromise are like two peas in a pod. A lack of effort is a universal sign of disinterest – and a relationship is no different.