Yes, it is women who seek the hands of men into marriage for they decide the men who deserve the crown of the King in their hearts. Men see women and get attracted to them. Before a man approaches a lady to unleash the cupid arrow at her, he would’ve found alluring her physical looks.
Men have sight, women have insight. A large number of men are fond of women’s body parts. Of course, they were created to be attractive and hold their predators captive. Thus, women divinely designed as the weaker sex, bear natural charms to tame their predators the men. Those who cannot be tamed and wield cutlasses to decapitate “offending” women are the different ilk of the human species.
Women settled a medieval war when they demonstrated without wearing any clothes. They presented themselves in nudity and bore anti-war placards. The feuding parties with men as their warriors, took to their heels in opposite directions, not wanting the defamation of feasting their eyes on the sight, in contravention of the convention of endurance to access the privilege of a woman’s physical nakedness.
Anytime you heard about a wedding, know the lucky one is the bridegroom for he was chosen by the woman. Women receive marriage proposals from the men but it is the women who decide who eventually marries them. The man must know that the woman he is after is seen by other admirers too. The nod to a particular man is therefore her decision to choose him. That is why it is sometimes said that if a woman does not love you, you can cut your head onto a plate for her but it won’t work.
Armed with this, men ought to understand that conjugal love is not by force. The woman in the seat taking the decision may not love you, so don’t become coercive. The responsibility of saying I do by women carries more weight than the proposal from men. Buying gifts for women as part of your campaign to win her love is purely your sole instigated decision, she doesn’t owe you for that. Even if she made some demands on you, you the man went to her first to seek her attention.
To win a lady’s heart, the bid goes beyond gifts. It must contain both spiritual and physical crafts where the former is the love of the mind, soul mating, and prayer.
It is true money is tied to the exigencies of life, without money it is hard to get things going in the modern world. Hence, some women desired by men leverage their sensual aspects for money. This is the most visible confidential trade. Prostitution some will call it. In all of its manifestations, women do something different when taking decisions about men who proposed love to them. Ultimately, they like men who are consistent, caring, and conducive.
When a woman wants a divorce, it so means that the man is not playing his cards well, and had continuously flouted the rules of the game, which has true love as the centerpiece. It is therefore wrong on the part of some men to take the law into their own hands and inflict punishment on women who don’t love them or are seeking a divorce.
It is love to the highest degree if women say no. She doesn’t want to worry you by taking you for granted. When you are jilted, men who loved the women whose love had waned, have the sacred responsibility to wish them well. No hard feelings on the latest case as there is more love in the larger populace.