How To Stand Out In A Crowd
Some people have it, some people don’t, but all of us can fake it. We’re talking presence, we’re talking charisma, we’re talking standing out in a crowd. What about these unique characters makes you stop and look when they walk into a room? How do they manage to command attention without even trying?
From business meetings to first dates, and job interviews to simple conversations, standing out in a crowd is easy when you know how. Be it clever trickery or genuine skill, here’s how to capture the magic of the effortlessly enigmatic:
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There’s no better way to feel confident and in control than by standing or sitting up straight. It’s an instant quick fix. Tummy in, shoulders back, chin up – there are lots of ways to better your posture. If you find it a struggle and feel more comfortable slouching, try some exercises to improve your posture. You’ll instantly feel more alert and will stand out in people’s minds.
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There’s something enticing and instantly appealing about someone who’s calmly aware of their own self-worth and is totally confident in their own skin. Whatever you call them – social butterflies, peacocks – they seem to attract interesting people like magnets. Want to know how to build self-confidence? It all comes from self-belief. Buy a book packed with self-confidence tips and try some confidence-building activities. You’ll be amazed at what a difference it makes.
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As well as confidence, there’s a lot to be said about passion. If you’re passionate about what you do and what you believe in – and team it with the confidence to express it – you’ll stand out for it. Don’t be afraid of thinking independently and letting your views and opinions be known. People will be interested to hear what you have to say. It’s a great way to make a strong impression. Try it – people will definitely remember your name.
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They say it’s what’s on the inside that counts and to a certain extent that’s true.
But it’s no good knowing how to gain self-confidence and which posture correction exercises to do if your appearance says otherwise. We’re just talking about looking and feeling comfortable and confident, so you stand out in a crowd for all the right reasons. Wear well-fitting clothes that suit your body type, coloring and personality, and change things up for different occasions. Show people who you are, and they’ll notice you for it.
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Whether you’re in a face-to-face situation or are communicating via email or letter, it’s essential you come across as original, to ensure you stand out from the crowd. Ever read a dull book or magazine article? It’s doubtful you’ll even remember the author’s name – and if you do it’ll be for all the wrong reasons. From CVs to job interviews, business communications to presentations, date night to negotiating a massively important deal, a little originality works wonders.
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With your physical presence sorted and your confidence sky high, a word to the wise about how you present your amazingness to others; coming across as capable and in control is a definite ‘yes’. Be good at what you do, know who you are, have passion, and communicate all this through a carefully balanced blend of physicality, personality, presence, and inner confidence. Standing out in a crowd is all about a mutual respect.