Things could slip out of hand at the beach, during a visit between each other, by alcohol intake beyond acceptable thresholds, or falling into a compromised situation that makes you lose control.
Other scenarios build lust and licentiousness to lure the opposite sex into unhealthy and unplanned sexual affairs.
When your thinking cap is blown away and moral resilience crumbles, you may not know you are on the precipice of the entanglement. At this point, you could well be on the highway to your grave. There is a rationale for this cliche called “there’s no free lunch.”
The swim in free Sex might be pleasurable but for a short while. Thereafter, begin to count your cost. A person who harbors some horrible disease might want to infect others so will willingly offer themselves to the sexual “slaughterhouse.” The person who is storage for deadly sexually transmitted diseases may not want to die alone, thus ties that misfortune around other necks like a log to your feet to sink you in the deep ocean.
Given the spread of HIV, and possibly related diseases, this is the time to alert adolescents and even mentally deranged women who are likely to fall into the sexual trap for all kinds of reasons.
Medical experts are warning that even in moments that you lose your head in pursuit of sexual fantasies, let your brains grope for the condom which is your last line of defense and could save you from the pangs of free sex. Men are particularly vulnerable because they are naturally calibrated to respond to a woman’s stimuli, and setting their eyes on a naked woman makes them lose control completely.
On the other hand, women must be on the lookout for rape. Forcibly having carnal knowledge of the woman. Defiled children are also put to chance on the slippery highway.
When HIV surfaced in Ghana in the 1980s, there was this story told of a young lady who was wooed by a foreigner and received huge sums of money from him. She had double heartbreak when one day her lover told her he was leaving the country, and related to her the rationale for the fat purse disbursed on her. The man said it was to help her to manage her precarious condition since he had infected her with HIV. The bombshell threw her family, and indeed the suburb in which she lived in turmoil, with reverberations throughout the entire map of Ghana. We seem to have forgotten this.