How a man may win love in these hard times
- Focus on career and job.
- Do alternative jobs especially in the informal sector.
- Be less involved with the opposite sex.
- Mingle only with group(s).
- Use the little money you make on yourself/to polish up
- You can still be generous to others, including the opposite sex if you may.
- Consider all help from you as normal and not specialized.
- Do not propose love to any woman, not even the closest friend, keep your focus.
- Build yourself to a level of personal satisfaction.
- Flowing from the above are possibly ownership of a house, car, good job, and the like.
- Keep close to religion, sticking to gentlemanliness, prayer, and piety.
- Watch the serious-minded lady walk up to you to be your friend into other possibilities.