5 things we are allowed to expect in a relationship: Psychotherapist explains
From expecting affection to support in sad times, here are a few things that we are allowed to expect in a relationship.
In a relationship, we have our own sets of needs, wants and expectations. However, the expectations we have in a relationship should be reasonable.
“You are allowed to have expectations- and should have expectations- in your relationship. Expecting to get diamonds every anniversary? Well, that’s not a fair expectation.
Expecting your partner will know what you’re thinking about being told? Also not a fair expectation. But wishing you’d receive some comfort when you’re sad? That’s a fair expectation (and a need),” wrote Psychotherapist Emily H Sanders.
We are allowed to expect to have consideration of how the actions of the partner can affect us physically, mentally and emotionally.
We can expect that the partner should show affection and appreciation for us, through words and actions.
We can expect to spend time together, spend intimate moments together and make beautiful memories.
The partner should show interest in knowing us, understanding us and finding out who we are.
When we are hurting or sad, we can expect our partner to offer us support and comfort. Seeking affection is healthy in a relationship